Gatekeeping is scarcity.
Gatekeeping. The word makes me tense up. I don’t like it. I don’t think that anything that empower us should be proprietary, secret, or hidden. I’ve had to really dive into my own relationship with gatekeeping to understand my own position on it.
First of all, you don’t need someone to tell you that you’re a force. You are a force. You were always a force. If you were wondering, it seems you forgot that 100% fact about yourself.
Second, well what about people charging for their offerings? When you enter a relationship with a practitioner, you are transacting for their energy. You are contracting with their ability to hold space for you. You aren’t buying a ting from them. Keep an eye out for a post about more on this later because even the people selling tings, you are buying way more than the ting!
Third, and maybe last thought for now, I struggle with what I share for free and what I ask people to invest in. It is this self-discovery of what I want to inspire in others and the mechanics of how I ask for an investment in the offering. I have a lot to say and I know there are people out there that need to hear it. I just don’t have a full yes on whether it is something I offer in exchange of an investment or something I offer as community support. Also, how do I offer it? Ya girl doesn’t want to manage a patreon page and I feel less and less inclined to show up on Facebook.
Sike! I have a fourth and (I promise) final thought. There are so many people in the world offering the same thing. Often times we gatekeep because of scarcity mindset. Where I feel people miss the bigger picture is that what sets you apart is you and the unique flavor of your energy. Scarcity is what keeps us from letting our fullest expression free and it’s what perpetuates the curse of comparison. Scarcity tells us that we need to be like that person over there (where, RIGHT THERE! ) in order to be successful.
You didn’t come into this existence to be anyone but yourself.
You came into this existence to be yourself. The end.
Trust me. I spent 34 years trying to figure out who I am which included imitating the people I thought were successful...which makes you really question and redefine what success is for yourself!
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Aligned Expression Emergence
When I tell my story, I am intentional about distinguishing between the conscious and unconscious parts of it. I consciously sought out my spirituality and to work intentionally with my energy in January 2019. Once I opened up my perspective to all-that-is, I realized that I was doing this my whole damn life, unconsciously. Just like you.
In retrospect, I redefine my journey not as spiritual seeking but as seeking to reconcile the identity emerging as my full expression with every other aspect of me. At the end of the day, isn’t that what we are all trying to do? Be our whole self in our whole life?
My journey is being the fullest expression I came into this lifetime to be. I’m giving you a sneak peek of some amazing photos that bring full circle what I feel on the inside to the out. This photo shoot was a part of healing the separation of my inner identity with my outward expression.
Keep an eye on my website to see allllll of dis essence captured.
Thank you the amazing photographer @_Cynthia_Alex
If You Feel It, So Can We
Amen Jordan Peele, amen.
If you want to align your actions, thoughts, and emotions to your spirit then let's talk how developing your psychic abilities help you live a full life. Developing your intuition isn't all about becoming a professional psychic or medium. It's about being the same person inside, outside, and in every expression. It is about eliminating the separation of your mind, body, and spirit through a shift in perspective.
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Strength in Differences
I recently saw a comment on Instagram of someone sharing that to celebrate people's differences only creates more division and separateness.
I cannot disagree more.
Our differences are what create a rich human experience that enables us to learn and grow from our multi-dimensionality. The only thing that creates more division is when you act within the energy of fear, jealousy, anger, hate, or anything else that is opposite of love. Booyahkah!
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Me: What archetype do I need to be more aware of today?
Cards: The Goddess.
Interpretation: In balance, the goddess is fully aware and fully embodying one's feminine energy: unapologetically sensual, creative, and wild.
Unapologetic because to apologize for your existence is to doubt and minimize your role. No more "sorry, not sorry." Be bold faced you as you are meant to.
Sensual does not equal erotic. Sensual can be erotic but erotic is a polarized expression of sensuality. The goddess archetype is about finding one's unique balance of expression within these facets. Sensual is sensing is feeling. Do you feel? Or are you numb? Are you numb as a defense mechanism? The goddess knows the wisdom in feeling and dives in with the courage to experience the totality of what is intended.
Wild does not mean out of control, that's the colonized perspective. The native perspective of wild is to be in the purest form and aligned with the original expression.
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I am going through an immense amount of self-healing and a big part of that is digging through your history and re-opening old wounds. For many of us, we are opening wounds we forgot or did not know existed. We spend so much energy adapting to smooth out life's hard edges that often times we avoid or lose sight of the root cause. Trying to resolve a situation too quickly is an easy way to do this and a sure fire way to ensure that we repeat the patterns that we are depriving ourselves from learning from.
In particular, I found myself uncovering this pattern of avoidance or isolation to protect myself. I was working in my Akashic Records and I uncovered a pattern of being the victim of emotional abandonment and the subject of resentment. To my abusers, I symbolized all that they did not want and what made them unhappy. To adapt and protect myself, I had to learn to become emotionally independent.
Over years, it made me what you might call a lone-wolf. I would be perfectly fine working by myself. In fact, I preferred it. As I asked the Records what I needed to do to heal this pattern, I was shown that by isolating myself and taking on this archetype of the lone-wolf, I was only perpetuating the cycle of abandonment and emotional repression. When we experience relationship trauma, we can take time to isolate to ground but the idea is to get back in the game. To re-connect with the collective. To take the lessons of our experiences and share them. When we do this, not only do we elevate our own consciousness but then we gift others with that too.
Choices are an act of sovereignty
You are a sovereign being.
You have the option to choose path A or path B.
Every time you choose, you are demonstrating your sovereignty and wielding your power.
Take a moment to check the influence on your decision.
Is the influence from you or outside of you?
You are more than what media tells you.
You are more than what society tells you.
You are way more than what anyone tells you.
Are you ready to fully embody who you came here to be?
Are you ready to set free the core of who you are and live in absolute alignment and bliss?
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June 28 FB Live demo
I have a free event on Facebook Live coming up on
Sunday June 28
@ 10 AM PST/1PM EST
If you aren't sure what to expect, watch the video below from my last FB Live event. I HIGHLY recommend following this link and watching the video with the comments. It helps to see people drop their validations.
I hope to see you there!
Shape shifter archetype
Archetypes. We are all playing characters/roles, alternating through a cast as the situation/scene changes. Every role is neutral. It is the influence or energy infused into the role that impresses upon it a tipping of the scale to light vs shadow or good vs bad.
I asked the deck, which archetypes do I need to be aware of this coming week? I got the Shape Shifter reversed.
A shape shifter in its highest expression of the energy is in the flow, agile, diverse. They are grounded and skilled at navigating through the ebbs and flows of consciousness for the greatest outcome. They are a chameleon but no matter what, they know who they are. They're merely playing with the variables to surface the untapped potential.
In it's lowest expression, a shape shifter is not grounded. They barely know what they want. They're shape shifting to avoid and to hide the truth of who they are. It is possible they don't know who they are so they don't know how to align to their Highest Self. They float along, fickle in their objectives. Serving their goals and not themselves. They align to an idea, a thought. Ya should align to that badass within. Just sayin....
Whether in yourself or in others, have you seen this archetype before?
I know I have. I guess you could say this was/is me. Not identifying with my purpose, I tend to align with a thought or an idea. But those are fleeting! When I am aligned to a part of me, the undeniable part of me that is me 100% 24/7, it is simply unquestionable. I know when I've strayed or become distant and can navigate my way back. It's this strong connection with my "home" that keeps me from getting totally lost. When I feel doubt or panic, I've lost sight of who I am. I start to veer towards people pleasing. People pleasing sucks because you're compromising yourself for success. Well I ain't hear for everybody and neither are you! The more comfortable we get with that, the happier we can be. To know who you're here for (clue: it's yourself), the better we get at shape shifting for our highest and greatest good.
So here I am, no make up, hair undone, t-shirt, and bags under my eyes to tell you....it doesn't matter what you look like or how you style it. The people (your people) that need to hear your message are going to listen because it resonates with their soul. Not because ya used a fritty color or some fritty font or some fritty picture. It's because they are an energetic match. Period.
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