Gatekeeping. The word makes me tense up. I don’t like it. I don’t think that anything that empower us should be proprietary, secret, or hidden. I’ve had to really dive into my own relationship with gatekeeping to understand my own position on it.
First of all, you don’t need someone to tell you that you’re a force. You are a force. You were always a force. If you were wondering, it seems you forgot that 100% fact about yourself.
Second, well what about people charging for their offerings? When you enter a relationship with a practitioner, you are transacting for their energy. You are contracting with their ability to hold space for you. You aren’t buying a ting from them. Keep an eye out for a post about more on this later because even the people selling tings, you are buying way more than the ting!
Third, and maybe last thought for now, I struggle with what I share for free and what I ask people to invest in. It is this self-discovery of what I want to inspire in others and the mechanics of how I ask for an investment in the offering. I have a lot to say and I know there are people out there that need to hear it. I just don’t have a full yes on whether it is something I offer in exchange of an investment or something I offer as community support. Also, how do I offer it? Ya girl doesn’t want to manage a patreon page and I feel less and less inclined to show up on Facebook.
Sike! I have a fourth and (I promise) final thought. There are so many people in the world offering the same thing. Often times we gatekeep because of scarcity mindset. Where I feel people miss the bigger picture is that what sets you apart is you and the unique flavor of your energy. Scarcity is what keeps us from letting our fullest expression free and it’s what perpetuates the curse of comparison. Scarcity tells us that we need to be like that person over there (where, RIGHT THERE! ) in order to be successful.
You didn’t come into this existence to be anyone but yourself.
You came into this existence to be yourself. The end.
Trust me. I spent 34 years trying to figure out who I am which included imitating the people I thought were successful...which makes you really question and redefine what success is for yourself!
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Krisell is a spiritual development coach, multi-dimensional medium, energy healer, and Akashic Records reader. She began developing her psychic senses as a form of self-care and learned to do readings as a bonus. Her readings used to be a trickle of spiritual connection seeing black shadows with no insight to their meaning. After 7 months from awakening her abilities, she took her practice professional to share the healing of Spirit with others.
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When I began my spiritual development in January 2019, I think I googled the heck out of the internet trying to understand what grounding is. It wasn't meant for me to find out from the internets so everything worked out. However, if you're finding this video, THIS right here is meant to be.
Hi, my name is Krisell Valenzuela. I’m the multi-dimensional medium, Akashic Records reader, energy healer, and spiritual development coach behind www.krisellcan.com. So today, I want to talk to you about grounding. What does grounding mean? What are grounding practices that you can take on? I started off my practice of grounding, in psychic development in general, using meditation as a form of grounding. As I’ve gone on my development journey, what I’ve realized and what it really took is understanding: what is grounding? Grounding practices can be anything because grounding is having an understanding, basis or foundation in who you are, where you are, what you came here to do. So at the core of it, its being rooted. It is knowing your environment. Let’s dig into that a little more. How to ground is about rooting yourself and having a foundation in something. I think if you look it up in Merriam Webster grounding says it’s having a basis in something. And so you can be grounding in many different experiences. And so your practice could evolve or be a chameleon for whatever that situation is. Some of the really common grounding practices, I started off doing meditation and a simple grounding meditation is to visualize roots growing from your body into the earth helping you anchor yourself into this earthly experience. And that is really helpful, especially when you are getting astral (astral traveling to other dimensions). Because you came into this 3D existence with purpose. Regardless of how many dimensions you go into, it’s important to know that hey! we are here, right here, right now in this dimension with a purpose. Other grounding practices could be earthing. Whether it be gardening, hugging a tree, or being barefoot on the earth. I like to think of other grounding experiences in terms of what helps me feel and connect into being human here on earth. Exercising is really helpful. Eating. (laughs) I don’t know about you but, I often have days where I forget to eat my meals. And so, making sure that I’m eating my meals and not spreading them too far apart. To take care of my human responsibilities, whether it be to pay my bills. Call customer service and take care of whatever nonsensical human issue I have to take care of. Some people like to use their divination tools to help ground them. It really is up to you and depending on who you are. I challenge you, instead of jumping into any of these practices that I do and seeing how it works for you, I challenge you to think about what reminds you that you are human and that reminds you, you are physical. Think about what helps you feel grounded and anchored. And so whether that be hugging someone, spending time with fam and friends, or being outside and laying in the grass and staring at the sky. I challenge you to think of experiences that you can turn into rituals. I think that is so much more powerful than looking up a list and trying what someone else tells you to do. At the end of the day, you need to have a practice that you can do on a daily basis because grounding is a daily, it’s a daily ritual. It is a daily self-care practice.
I recently sat down with Sapphire Sandalo of the Stories with Sapphire podcast. Listen to the episode here!
Healing, with Krisell ValenzuelaFor the 4th season of Stories With Sapphire, I will be releasing episodes every other week. But in the weeks in between, I’ll be releasing an animated video story on my Youtube channel at https://www.youtube.com/sapphiresandalo, so make sure you subscribe there as well.
In this week's episode, I’ll be sharing 3 stories that explore the connection between spiritual and physical sickness, along with Krisell Valenzuela's (a multidimensional medium) take on each.
Chapter 1: I Don't Want To Go With Grandpa, submitted by Anonymous
Chapter 2: My Mother, The Healer, submitted by Anonymous
Chapter 3: What's Become Of My Stepmother, submitted by Shadow Dexter
Every Thursday @5PM PST/8PM EST I go live on FB, Twitch, and YouTube with emoji readings, psychic development, discussing metaphysics, and answering your questions. The schedule is up on my website, link in bio.
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Imee is a Filipinx, a mother, a poet, a musician, and a martial artist, among many other large and little things. Imee was born in the Philippines and spent her childhood in (the Kingdom of) Hawaii, and currently reside on the ancestral lands of the Shawnee, Miami, Wyandotte and Delaware nations in Ohio. The idea to create Mayari Moon Apothecary was spontaneously born one night under a full moon, as a way to honor her ancestors and her story. Mayari is the Philippine goddess of the moon, and she currently offers high vibrational products for self care and ritual inspired by Mayari herself.
2-Day Virtual Beginner Psychic and Mediumship Development Workshop on Feb 21 + 28 link in bio for details and to register. Head to the link to peek all the empowering tools you’ll learn!
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I recently sat down with Sapphire Sandalo of Stories with Sapphire to contribute to her latest podcast episode. We talked about faith and energy healing. As always, I enjoyed geeking out talking about energy work.
The episode premieres Wednesday Feb 10. Check it out here: https://storieswithsapphire.com/
Yesterday I had TJ (They/Them) of Daily Magic on with me talking the Energetics of Money. They just closed the doors on their Tarot Course created especially by and for BIPOC queer folk. Head over to their website www.dailymagic.ca and keep tabs so you can join the next time doors open.
In this video we discuss:
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TJ is the the heart and soul behind DailyMagic.ca, a lifestyle and spirituality online resource. By day, they are an Astrologer, Tarot Reader, Reiki Master and all-around Bruha, who is passionate about decolonization and Truth Seeking. When they’re not working with clients or teaching classes, you can find TJ brewing up songs or crafting their next creative art project.
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